Cunnilingus

Practice, practice, practice. Ask the girl you're with what works. Ask her what doesn't. Bear in mind that what works with one person won't always work with another (some women have very sensitive labia and like them to be licked, others have much less feeling there; some women need more stimulation on the clit, some less.) Don't forget to use your lips (and even, if the woman you're with likes it that way, your teeth) as well as your tongue. Your hands are also important parts of the whole. The more you do it the more you will learn.

I'm so happy you asked this question..... Please read Ian Kerner's "she comes first".  That is the first step, then next is practice.  When you hear the moans of pleasure and her begging for it each time you make love, then you can pat yourself on the back.... your there.

experience is the best teacher.

I eat pussy most every day and find that when my partner "sits" on my face and I play with her boobs, fingers tickling the nipples, she has the most multiple orgasms and enjoys it the best... Tried this with several women and they really get into it... By the way if you are fortunate enough to have dentures be sure to remove them for deeper penetration with your tongue...

I don't know if the book is still in print, but it is called "the Female's guide to Pleasures." by T. D. Katz  This is geered more for women but I am sure a male can get the secrets also.  I borrowed it from my mom and had to sneak it but she never knew.  I learned many tips from this book.  The T. D. kats Book store

It goes for like twelve for the book and four for the download.  As I said, woman use it as a sort of a sexual bible.  A man or two must have read it also.  I hope you find out what you need.  Email me and let me know