Crushing on my professor

I have a crush on my male professor. I don't think he knows it but I think he's absolutely fascinating. Should I tell him?


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Although, as a former professor, it sparks my imagination, I have to vote with the other 3 making it 4 to 0 now voting NOT UNTIL YOU GRADUATE (or are out of his classes, I would say). You don't tell your age and whether he is married/children or not and the nature of your potential interest (falling in love, dating him, marrying him, just sexual fun, etc). But the safest and best answer without knowing those details is NO. Expecially if he is married and has children ... surely you would not want to damage his entire family (a possibility if he got involved with you). That said, I do know a professor who married his student after she graduated and they made a lovely couple (his 2nd marriage, he was single when they started dating) and lived very happily and successfully as a married couple. But many more similar situations go down in flames and they did not date until she graduated. ROB

Posted 2009-11-29T22:09:39Z
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Absolutely!  After you graduate.  .........and just remember you may be one in a row of professor groupies who has a crush on this fascinating man who may well like all the "crush" feedback he gets.

Posted 2009-11-28T00:51:11Z
 
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Yesterday's gone and Today is going fast, Tomorrow is all we have, Until it to has passed

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! If you have a crush on him, so do probably hundreds of other students. Unless you plan to start up some type of relationship with him, and I wouldn't advise it, it would only make him feel very uncomfortable, everytime he is in your presence. Spare him that embarrassment, and yourself if he doesn't reciprocate the feeling. And you KNOW whether he does or not.

And if you do FEEL you have to tell him, do it only AFTER you have graduated. Do not make it an uncomfortable situation for everyone involved, because of YOUR feelings.

Posted 2009-11-28T03:45:46Z
 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
No.  Absolutely not.  If you do it you can do much harm.  Here is a short list:
1.  You might embarrass him.
2.  You ruin the formal relations.
3.  You won't let him be "fair" to you any longer.
4.  He might ask you to leave his class (for good).
5.  You might be "special treatment" (  + or - ) and that is not fair.
The best thing to do is wait until you graduate or untill he is no more your Professor.  
Best regards,

Thumbs up to the previous answers.

Posted 2009-11-28T04:31:33Z
 
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"LEARNING is fundamental!"

God, Self, Country...in that order.

VISION, Change and Education=PROGRESS

No, you are supposed to be learning the class(not the professor). He is at work to teach, not date. There are other ways to meet women and he probably already has one anyway. Don't put him (or yourself) in an embarrassing situation like that! Blessings, ~ nmpb ~

Posted 2009-12-02T08:59:03Z
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