those of you who were kind enough to advise on the situation with simon, tonkinese cat, well the update is this, I continue to go by to find him but he is seldom out of the house, he doesnt like the very hot weather so I imagine he is glad to be inside at least some of the time, which makes it so difficult for me to see him and to bring him home. I could knock on the door and demand they hand him over, years ago i might have but I just cant deal with the ramifications of that. I feel like such a chicken, but I dont want confrontation, I want to go pick up my cat and leave, I just have this feeling that the police will be called and it will turn into a nightmare ANY AND ALL SUGGESTIONS NEEDED. also, if i confront the people and simon was realy unhappy here and would want to be there instead, then that would no longer be an option and i dont want to do that as he might not want to stay home, in which case i will let him go back to where he is happy. THANK YOU.