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Confused possible expectant mother

Okay here is the deal......

I told my fiance that i might be pregnant. But he still keeps denying the fact that i might be. I do not understand why or what is wrong with the fact that i might be pregnant.

I am kinna hurt and confused. And i do not know what to do if i am. And what to do when he keeps denying the fact that we might be expecting.

If anyone has any suggestions or advice for me please email me and let me know what i should do!


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First thing is to get a home pregnancy test, available at drug stores -- if it shows that you are pregnant, then you need to get to a doctor or clinic for a check-up, and to get the information you need to guard your baby's health and your own.  Then you can deal with your finace, who will be responsible as the father if you are pregnant!  (if he denies it, then you will need legal help!)

 
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Before you get everyone all worked up - take a pregnancy test. If it's positive and he still won't take responsibility, consider this a lesson learned.   Maybe he's in shock. If you decide to keep the baby and he's still in denial, take him to court for child support.  If the pregnancy test is negative, kick him to the curb - you want someone who will support you at a time like this - denying it just makes him look immature. 

 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi Keistine,
I totally agree with cleanfreak's answer (thumb up).  Take a blood test (It is THE most accurate and THE most reliavle test) and knoe for sure if you are pregnant or not.  If you are not, better realize that this man is not for you ! (sorry).   By denying he revealed his real face and real personality.  That is not a partner to share your life with.  If you are pregnant better think 100 times what to do (the situation in that case is much more complicated and involves the life of a 3rd human).  
Best regards,

 
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I agree with most of what the others have said .   This man has shown you his true colors , to be blunt I refer to his type as a sperm donor nothing more . I suspect he doesn't see it as  " We " might be pregnant , he sees it as " You " might be pregnant .   I see him as being inmature , selfish and irresponsible . Regardless to if you are pregnant or not you need to kick this man to the curb .  You don't want to raise your child with such a poor role model .  If you are pregnant , hold him financially responsible for his child .   But I honestly feel either way , you need to move on .  I wish you the best and your little one if you are pregnant .

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