Confused and hurt

Hi,
He has some reason doing so.  I don't know the exact answer but think from his point of view: He does if because he gains something.  You shown work out the answer.  I believe he tries to manipulate you.  Be very careful and best for you is to split and never meet him again.  He is no good for you....  Don't live under illusions, he is playing with you and won't come back.  Besides, he is not worth you, better find someone that will give you a better and more steady life. 
Best regards,

He sounds like a real jerk. It also sounds like he's playing with your emotions and only looking to manipulate the situation each time he returns. I think you should seek out individual counseling, as a professional will be able to help you work through this difficult time and help you move on. You deserve someone who will love you and not take advantage of your feelings, as clearly your husband has been doing for some time. If you need help finding a therapist in your area, let me know. I'd be happy to help if I can.

It's all about power games and manipulation. Sounds like you're better off without him if this is the way he's acting. I don't think you need someone in your life that treats you this way.

Take care 

Hello,

He keeps comes back because you allow him to. people treat you the way you allow them to. put your foot down and show him that you are not his door mat tell him that you don't have time for his games if he really loved you he would not keep hurting you.  stand up and be strong and move on with your life you will feel much better having done so. take good care of yourself..