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First of all I believe it was very wrong of her to expose you to unprotected sex if she was unsure of her HIV status! I think this was immorally wrong of her and I would definitely understand if that could be a reason for seperating from her! Secondly, I think you should most certainly try and find this man who "raped" her ~ firstly to try and get the truth of what really happened, and secondly because rape is a criminal offence, and the bugger should be imprisoned before he does it to anyone else!!!!
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