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I am in my md 50's and am dating a lady in her early 40's, she is married and has two kids, our sex life is very satisfying but she states that she won't get divorced because of her kids, she also is quite demanding when it comes to gifts or money and stresses me a lot. Can someone give me his or her views on this situation? Is it worth keeping this relationship?


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tiptopmanager
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Run Forrest Run! My friend this is not a good situation to be in, it seems to me that she is using you for her own personal gains. This relationship is going nowhere and you need to get out before you get hurt to bad.

Sorry. Best wishes and good luck. 
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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


Tiptopmanager gave you an excellent answer.  I would like to add several comments:
1.  She is married.... No need to add.....
2.  She doesn't want to devorce because of the kids....
     I believe it's a poor excuse, cause if she is at her 40's
     her kids are teenagers..... grown enough to understand.
3.  So she is probably more or less happy with her marriage
     or what you offer is not much better from what she has.
4.  The point of money / gifts / demanding is a bit strange.
     You can refuse.  It sounds to me as if that's the main
     reason for her to be in relations with you.  No offence
     please.  It's very bad if that is the case.
5.  By asking "Is it worth keeping this relationship ?" I can
     sence that you don't really care about her and / or
     about your relations (in fact you consider giving it up).  
     So deep inside you know all what are wrote her. 
All in all: Bring those relations to an end ASAP.
Sorry, I really didn't mean to be too hard to you. 
Happy New-Year.
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harryvan
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You may be confused but your lady friend certainly isn't. Giving you sexual favors so freely is just wrapping an exploitive net around you where she is in total control. Why should she get divorced when she has everything she wants at little cost? It may hurt at the beginning, but you should cut through that net and get as far away from her as you can. Otherwise you will be like a dead fish.
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I take it this woman is married to someone else.  That is the first thing that should feel less than optimal.  The fact that she doesn't want to divorce means that she has some type of a commitment to the marriage.  So what role do you really play in her life?  If it's purely a physical relationship, then there are others who will provide that for you.  If on top of that she is demanding, then why would you want to stay?  I think the bigger question is not just about this woman, but about you as a person and what it is you want from a relationship.   Once you know that, you will be able to make better choices, or at least choices that suit you better.
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MusicIsMyHotHotSex
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MY inferiority complex isn't as good as YOURS

LOL@tiptopmanager!I

agree with the other replies.The lady is married,hell-bent on staying that way and sounds alot like a gold-digger.No one should ever demand gifts or money from you (unless they have a gun to your head,then I suggest you pony up whateva ya got).She sounds spoiled.If she cares so much about her kids,what's she doing stepping out on their father?I think it's a bad situation for everyone involved and you should bow out gracefully,while telling her what a jerk she is.
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