God is God and we do not know His mind.  It is dangerous to tred on the scriptures and try to make something out of them that is not meant to be.  Why are babies born out of wedlock?  Why don't God do something about it before the baby is conceived?  We all ask these questions at one time or another, but then we DON'T know the mind of God.  I do not bring judgement against girls that have babies out of wedlock, but when I see them mistreating those babies, I no longer bite my tongue.  God loves those babies regardless of how they got here.  He loves you too even though you question His works.  Be careful and God bless.