Do you think my boyfriend will care less that I'm having an affair because it's a woman? I know it seems sort of like a weird question, but a lot of guys are into that kind of thing, aren't they? I mean, do you think there's a chance that maybe he won't be mad and that it'll be a turn on for him? I didn't mean for this to happen. I just started messing around with my best girl-friend, and we started having fun. What should I do?