NopoliBeen
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We're not retreating... we're advancing in another direction.

-General Douglas MacArthur 

Cheating... but it's with a woman. Is this still bad?

Do you think my boyfriend will care less that I'm having an affair because it's a woman?  I know it seems sort of like a weird question, but a lot of guys are into that kind of thing, aren't they?  I mean, do you think there's a chance that maybe he won't be mad and that it'll be a turn on for him?  I didn't mean for this to happen.  I just started messing around with my best girl-friend, and we started having fun.  What should I do?


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colinf
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I think you need to talk to your boyfriend. I do not think that cheating, with either sex is acceptable. It would be one thing if you discussed it with your boyfriend first, and got permission or perhaps even agreed to some group experimentation, however you did it behind his back. For men, a partner cheating is usually a bad hit to our egos. It is as if you are saying that we are not pleasing you enough sexually so you need to look for something missing elsewhere. You are right that the idea of two girls together does usually get us excited, but that is when we are present! Hopefully your boyfriend will understand that it is nothing having to do with him. Good luck.

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OronD
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


Yes as Colinf mentioned for men a partner cheating is a bad hit to their egos and it hurts 10 times more if it's with a girl.....  I met several cases like that and the results / reactions were extremely bad (much more than the usual).  I believe that on top of the cheating there is some kind of insult as well (unjustified).
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I think you should also reexamine your sexual  identity. What do you enjoy more. Nothing wrong in understanding your desires now. Come forward with your wishes no point in hiding them. Better now then hurting more people in the future.
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Bring him in to watch or join in.  That is, if he is self assured. This same thing happenned to a female friend of mine at work years ago. She was only 19 and really hot. Her husband had gone to bed and she and a girlfriend got together on the couch. Her husband woke up and came down stairs and punched her several times in the face and threw the friend out. Shortly thereafter, they divorced.

 

 
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Can't resist a woman with a very sexy body!

Well it depends on the man. If it were me I would be like GREAT! I would be joining in the fun but the the problem comes with feelings. Your boyfriend might get jealous or feel insecure like may he doesn't satisify you enough so depends on his feelings. I think in a relationship it is cheating if he doesn't like it and it isn't cheating if he oks it. But in the end it is his opinion or your opinion that really matter
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yes unless you share and let him bring chicks too... turnabout is fair play girl!
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