Is He Cheating...Again?

Need2know,

   If you can't trust this man, dump him.  You don;t need to be stressed over a cheater.  Don't act desperate.  Move on and be careful in choosing a good, honest and a faithful one.

Confront him; ask him; tell him you suspect him; when he gets mad, tell him you have prior experience and you sense a repeat; tell him he'd be best to be HONEST with you even if he thinks you will not like what he tells you.  Tell him cheating is only bad among couples and societies that believe in monogomy (which is NOT the only alternative, even if it's all you know or want, or what you expect).  But tell him being a liar is not just bad in particular societies or among monogomist couples its inherently bad and despisable in all societies and among all people and makes him a worthless charcter if he lies to one he supposedly loves.

That might bring out the truth OR convince you he is being honest.

If that does not work and if you can not be happy unless the relatinship is a monogomous one, then you need to break off the relationship and move on ... like the previous poster advised you.   

Bottom line:  you either get to bottom of this with him and accept what you get OR you change your expectations/relationship with this guy .... as you will make him and yourself miserable going on like you are now .. with SUSPICIONS and UNCERTAINTY on something that is IMPORTANT TO YOU.

rob

if he works, send him a present at work, from his love, or if in school, drop a letter from the same in his locker. if he mentions nothing to you, he may not be cheating, but he wants to and will be waiting and looking for that person. if he is faithful, he will tell you someone left that note/present for him. i know i would( tell my significant other, you in this case) that is.

I hate to say it, but i didn't even need to read the entire question before coming up with my answer. If a guy cheats on you once without telling you, and therefore does not feel the guilt that comes with hurting someone in that way, then it is likely that he will do it again. You deserve better than that. I suggest that you break it off with him and find someone who treats you right. Even if you want to eventually get back with him, make him fight for you and realize what he can potentially lose. Good luck!

Most likely he is cheating still if he has done it before. After the first time you cheat on someone, the guilt is gone and it gets eaiser and eaiser to cheat. You should try to move on. Ive been here before ... a few times.