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Cheater or no??

i have been with a man for about 5 months now,and he has always carried his phone everywhere he goes..even to the bathroom in the morning.he also refused to add me to his facebook page,nevermind as his girlfriend..but has ex's who supposedly really hurt him on there??he actually deleted his account,instead of just adding me...how can that not mean he had something to hide?? i want to believe him but have been there before and dont want to be made out to be a fool,can you give me some thoughts? but he gets defensive,swears he loves me and constantly says he wants to marry me... please help because we both have kids involved ( not together )


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I'm betting that if his ex's really hurt him it's because he really cared about them, and that he has their pics on his Facebook and not yours?  --He can say he loves you all he wants, but surely you know full well that actions speak louder than words.

 
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Bye, Son!

Victims of circumstance owe it to fate. Victims of choice owe it to themselves.

The only help that I can give is to tell you to terminate this relationship yesterday and to wish you a Merry Christmas.

Celebrate your new life.

Celebrate the Incarnation.

Jay

 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
10 to 1 that he is hidding something from you.  What looks like a dog, barks like dog is most probably a dog .......  You can give him the benefit of doubt but there are high chances that he is hidding something from you.   Yes, he is most probably cheating.   I bvet the phone is always on "quiet" too (so you won't be able to hear when he gets phone calls or SMS messages).
Best regards,

 
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     S.N.O.T.S.

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Wild & Free Protect The Mustang !

 Saints Super Bowl Champs !

YEAH BABY !

 

I am with C.D. , Jay and OronD on this 100% . YES . I believe he is committing infidelity . His behavior is extremely DISRESPECTFUL .  He refused to add you to his Facebook Page decided to delete his account instead , because it contains something and or someone he is hiding from you .  If this Man loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you , then what's the problem with the world knowing it . His phone behavior is also suspect .  Those who have nothing to hide , hide nothing.  This guy is hiding everything from you .  His actions and behavior are not those of a man who loves you and is being honest with you .  There should be no secrets between the two of you and there are .  Listen to your inner voice it rarely leads us wrong unless we choose to turn a deaf ear to it . Again I am with the guys here . Kick this man to the curb , he is deceitful and disrespectful .   I wish you the best .

 
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Yesterday's gone and Today is going fast, Tomorrow is all we have, Until it to has passed

I'm weighing in with all the rest. The guy is not on the up and up. His actions are far too suspicious. It sounds like he does love you, BUT, it also sounds as though he's keeping you on the back burner and should the ex decide to come back into his life, you will get dropped like a hot potato. Any man or women that has to carry their phone to the bathroom with them is definitely hiding something and up to no good. Give him an ultimatum, either he stops the ridiculous behavior and puts you on his facebook or you're walking out the door. And if he doesn't, do it!

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 Be honest and be true to yourself.

I totally agree with everyone, drop him from your life and pay attention more to your children. Life will be easier and more productive if you don't have a man who will give you problems. A loving and honest man will make life easier for you. Dump the man. And have a very Merry Christmas.

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