This LinkHi, Jack M Zufelt has a very different approach than all the traditional gurus about how to make people succeed in their endevours. Rather than goal setting, affirmations, positive thinking and a number of other "techniques" he focuses on teaching people how to find their Core Desire. The interesting phenomenon is that once you find your Core Desire, then you also grow to conquer all the small and big obstacles on the way, without all the mumbo jumbo you otherwise hear about.
Rather than feeding the feeling of being a loser (by not achieving all sorts of goals), Zufelt's method does actually work! Have a look at:
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I am sorry that the book presented is not for free, but you can read to get to know what it is all about without paying anything. If you think his book can be good for you, then you decide how to proceed. The book has been published in over 30 countries and has helped thousands.
Good Luck from Knut