Career women

Of course.  There are men with many different expectations, and many women with their own very different expectations.  Of course there are very motivated women today who want to start their own businesses, be doctors, be busy, work at lot, change the world, run for president, etc.  There are women who truly like being traditional and want to spend their time in the home, focusing their time on their children and keeping the home.  There are many women who find some sort of balance between these two.  There is no right or wrong.  What is wrong is for the man to insist that his wife be one way or another.  I think that this is of course an important conversation to have before deciding to marry someone, but every human has a right to lead their life they way they wish.  If a woman has a dream, they man should not try to stop her.  If a woman or man wants to stay in the house, then they should be able to... however, these things need to be discussed in detail before marriage. 

I'm glad that what I said was helpful.  I think that it's really awesome that you work so hard and that you try so hard to be the best you can.  I think that you should sit down with your husband and remind him that you love the family and care about your career, and that you're not lazy... but that doesn't mean that you don't need his help.  I think that it is just as much the man's responsibility to keep the home and take care of the children, as it is the woman.  Remind him that you are in this together and that you want the best for your children and the best for everyone.  Maybe he can help out more or lower his standards a little so you aren't constantly feeling under pressure.  Good luck.