Cancel Wedding/marriage

I hope you don't mind my saying this but you sound like a future mother-in-law. I heard of a mother-in-law who stood next to her son at the marriage ceremony  and had a charm with the following message pinned to her lapel, "He could have done better."  You had plenty of opportunity to express your opinion as "a good friend" when they were dating and you obviously  did not. Now is not the time and giving your opinion at this late date will destroy  your friendship even if you are later proven correct. 

maybe he is best for her,though!never try to break up a relationship,it's not your concern!if he makes her happy,you should be happy for her!one time,a person i knew didn't like the girl her son was going to marry,because she was poor,in the end,he didn't marry her but married another girl,who seemed"just right",i have to say that that guy didn't have a good marriage and regrets even to this day for not having married the other girl!and he blames his mother for his unhappiness!

Unless SHE tells you it doesn't feel right to HER,you shouldn't speak up about your feelings for the guy if you value your friendship.She's not going to dump her future hubby because you don't like him but she might dump you.If she marries him,and you have voiced your opinion,she'll know you disapprove and won't want you around her relationship because it's toxic to a new marriage.Maybe this issue really has nothing to do with the guy and everything to do with you being afraid to lose her once she's married.I understand that,but you shouldn't try to sabotage her wedding.If she's happy and in love,let it go.Maybe he is nervous around you because he knows you're a tough crowd and you haven't seen the REAL him.I wouldn't worry too much about your friend.If it's wrong,she'll feel it.

stop the wedding and you will lose your friend. She is old enough to make her own decisions and it really is none of your business. You say he has done nothing wrong I really believe that you are jealous maybe not about her marriage but now she will have another friend.

If your friend is happy with the marriage, I dont think so it is a good idea to stop it.

Mary -- wedding flowers