Busy boyfriend never has time for me! Do i still love him??

Hope, your name suggests that what you really want is in the future. Your bf is making a serous investment in his and if you will allow, yor future. If he were to give up his career for your immature needs you and he are giving up a good foundation on which to buils your family and home. Support him now by telephone and understand his needs. If you cannot do that then let him continue his studies, free him from any obligations towards you and you and he should meet more suitale partners. Believe me you are about to give up a mature and responsible individual on whom you will e able to always rely. Don't be foolish and grow up.

Hi Hope ,  I agree with Rosie (Thumb Up ) .  Your Boyfriend sounds like a very mature responsible man who is building a future .  Perhaps you don't know what you want , you state you love him to death in your question , but ask in it's title do I still love him .  Perhaps you do not want the same things in life .  If you do care for him you will be understanding and supportive .  You are 20 years old , do you have a job are you in school ?   If not why don't you take some classes to fill some of your spare time .  Do some volunteer work , go out with your girlfriends .  You want to have fun now , he's looking to have fun later , after he has his education . 

Hope, your bf is trying to better himself in life and nursing is a great field because he'll never be out of work.. Let him do it hunny, and just be patient if he really loves or likes watever the case may be he'll make the time.. Until then spend time with your friends or find something you enjoy doing to pass the time and keep you occupied.

Hope,

   You sound immature.  You should feel lucky to have a man like him.  So you'd rather be with someone who will give you a lot of fun but does not think about your future?

    I agree with Rosie and Equus, one thumb each.  He is a good man and a responsible man.  If I were you, I would sacrifice a little bit since you said you love him to death.  What you're doing is not showing love but just being selfish.

   At any rate, if you let go of him, he will eventually find a responsible woman,  It will be your loss.  There are many women who would love to have an RN for a boyfriend or a husband.

    Think about it,  If you can't take it, then break up with him and spare him the headache and the BS that you're giving him.

DB Lady , Thumb Up .

True love can overcome any obsticle. If you truly loved him, you would be more understanding of his situation. You don't realize how lucky you are. There are men out there who don't spend time with their g/f b/c they're out at bars, strip clubs, with their loser friends, etc. You have a man who is responsible and working on building a future & solid foundation and you don't appreciate him,. Doesn't sound like love to me. Sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do. There's more to life than having fun & partying. I know you would like to spend more time with him but in life we can't always get what we want. At least he has a good reason for not being able to spend a lot of time with you. You need to figure out what you really want in life and go from there.

sweetie please move on.  you're only 20 yrs old. go out and meet someone else.  don't stop having fun for someone else.  if it's meant to be it'll come back.  it doesn't make sense for you to waste time with him if he has no time for you.  then, if it doesn't work out, you'd regret wasting your time.  move on. 

I am a nursing student and let me tell you I study all the time and still don't have enough time. You have a good man but you are being selfish and immature. your title asks do you love him? If you can picture yourself with anyone other than him then no you don't. If you truely loved him and wanted to marry him you would be supportive and know he is working toward a foundation needed to have a life and family. Sounds as if you have a good man but i'm telling you if you don't grow up a little someone else will get him. Good men are hard to find. Do you work are you In school? Occupy your time. You should have a life and he should have a life so that you can share a life together. What fun are you to him if you do nothing but whine and nag him. I understand it is hard when you want more time with him. I too have a boyfriend who has 3 jobs. Time is scarce but we enjoy the time we have just because we are together . just try a different approach .  When he works a third shift we meet for maybe ten min in the morning for a kiss many times on the side of the road as we cross paths. 10 min its not a party its a good morning i love you have a good day and kiss good bye. It helps stop some of the lonelyness of not seeing each other at all.  If you know he is busy don't distract him by lingering around and staying longer it will hinder his time and make him not as open to meet up for a few min. next time. Good luck. Hang on to a good man.