Broken heart

hello my name is allejandro lets see I bet it is cuz of the type of guy u date maybe u like the "bad" boys u know? maybe u should try to look in diff places for guys dont go to bars and what not but think of places where normal nice guy would hangout u know wht I mean or maybe u open up to easy and u give them everything u know or maybe as dum as this sounds u have sex with them to fast u know cuz if u can get her into bed with in a few dates or so then hey I can go play around and still have her their so yeah I say u look for diff type of guys and wht not but hey I have had my heart brokein to I was going to get married as a SR year of highschool but she left me for aother man but now I have found the love of my life and we plan of getting married in a few months so yeah u find someone just takes time u know so good luck and if u ever want u can find me at bigtan59 on AIM so yeah peace and happyness to all

I am in the same boat right about now and the only thing I can tell you is to raise your standards and don't settle! Why  settle for shit do when you can wait a little bit longer and get gold!

a good man /woman is hard to find.So little respect tought these days.

You have to learn to fall in love with your head not your heart.

I just want to let you know, country songs don't help!!!  Really though, I went through this with the same guy for 4 years on and off...I guess I'm just a sucker or something.  Since November I decided he wasn't the guy for me and have "moved on" as much as ...well, as much as my heart will let me.  I mentioned that I am afraid to start dating again to my friend and she gave me some GREAT advice.  First, she asked me if I was dead.  When I replied no, she said that no matter how bad I felt this one guy (or any guy) breaking my heart did not stop me from living!!!  Humans bounce back, maybe not today, but we do with time.  My counselor gave me some good advice too...when I think about this guy and start spiraling into the "I miss him" mode...remember all the times he made me feel horrible by his actions or words.  He obviously was not the guy for me or he wouldn't feel so low about himself that he had to criticize me.  Don't let the real guy go by because the wrong guy chose to miss out!!!

The simple truth... 99.9% of the people you date are not going to be forever. Thats ok, its part of life. Its not YOU- Its not THEM. It's just not meant to be. Breakups hurt and each one can become a reminder that you are single. Before you go and date someone else, spend time with you. Fall in LOVE with you- I know that sounds corny and so over-played, but you need to really be in love with YOU. This way when you do have another break-up/ heartbreak (which may happen or maybe the next guy you meet is your soulmate, who knows) its not so hard on you because you remember that there is someone really amazing in your life... YOU!