My husband's job closed so we had to move. after a year of paying rent and paying a house payment we got a bridge loan to buy another house. The house hasn't sold yet and the loan is due. We asked for and extension. They said no. The housing market took a dive and we owe more than we can get. They haven't started forclosure, they want us to re-finance somewhere else. We can't afford to make two payments very much longer.