The bridal shower and wedding registry are not the same. For your bridal registry you may want to consider a theme shower - lingerie, kitchen, Shower by Hour, Pamper the Bride, etc. Do you have everything or do your grandparents? You plan to with them how many months, years after the wedding? For your wedding shower consider things you and your husband will enjoy having for yourselves. Of course you can always have a donation made to the charity of your choice.