Break Up

Telling from the crying he does still care about you.  but since he brought the stuff back to you he doesnt want to get back together w/ you.  He might have broken it off b/c of many differant reasons...job, he doesnt want to hurt you or many other things.

im sorry about tht but im sure there is someone out there for you.  you just haven't found him yet.  Keep searching.

He may have cried because he felt guilty for hurting you. Please dont cry over this guy, he probably knows you are a great girl, but you are not the girl for him or he wouldnt have let you go. Things happened really fast between you guys and you should have known each other longer before you moved in together. Usually most relationships are the best in the beginning because everyone puts their best foot forward. Maybe you just saw who he really is and that is a guy that cannot stay in a commited relationship. Whether he found someone else, or realized its too much too soon, you have learned from this experience. Let the next guy fall in love with you first and stay reserved, hold back a little you have your whole life ahead of you. I think its always best when a man finds a woman a challenge, it seems like too many times that when the challenge is over, the man losses interest. It seems to me when a woman falls too fast, a man can also get scared. Please protect yourself first. Mr Right is out there, waiting for ya!

he showed up with his friend because he doesn't think he can be alone with you. he obviously couldn't handle it even with his friend there. he still cares about you, but i think he just wants to stay close friends with you. but never say never he might want to get back with you someday but in the meantime who cares do what you want and have fun. trust me it's happened to me, i still like my ex a lot and we broke up awhile ago. but i've just been doing my thing and it's been great!

Cora,

I think you two should have waited a little while before you two moved in together. Maybe living together made things tough for him and maybe he also thought he didnt want to settle down yet. He probably does care about you, if he just showed up at your doorstep :-) just ask him if it was because he thought you two were moving to fast in the relationship.and then tell him that if thats the case you two could be together just not live together quite yet..

i really dont think he wants a serious relationship with you or anyone .you said he cried and was shaking because he wanted to make you feel bad about him leaving. let him go there are plenty of fish in the sea. there is someone out there as speacial as you are

It is a Great loss, I've been their and became obsessed, after that reading into his ways, we got together again which I guess good in a way but he wanted his cake and eat it too, well evenually I moved on, and it sounds just like him, so you've made mistakes or have you?It's an experience and we all have to move on so good luck with life we all have been their one time or another...........