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So I am really falling for this guy that I have been hanging out with.  Although he does some things that I do not like.  I guess i am sorta ok with it as long as he doesn't do it aroung me or before I come over.  I really don't want to change him  because then he wont be happy.  I don't know what to do?  should i just keep having fun with him the way he is or try and get him to stop at least one of the things that he is doing?


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Live simply, love generously and  care deeply.

 

It depends on what he is doing.  Is it hurting you?  Does it really bother you?  You need to have an open communication, tell him your thoughts and he should do the same. 

    What kind of things bother you about him?  Is he watching porn?  If you can tolerate and can take him as he is, then you should let him do whatever he's doing.  If after talking to him about it and that it still bothers you, then,  I think you should move on and find someone who has the same tastes and values as you.

Take care.


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Just keep having fun with the way it is, triing to change someone is a mission impossible and you only end up hurting yourself from exhaustion. He has got to want to change himself. Good luck


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Thanks for all of you that have answered the question I think that I will talk to him more about it and just wish that he would want to change but i am not going to do it myself.


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