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coriandermay

life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly, and forgive quickly.

Boyfriends ex GF/ friend advice on what to do

OMG! this is sooo frustrating! my boyfriend has liked this one girl since like jr high and he went out with her for like a week or 2 and he has been so obssesed with her all those years and he has told me countless times that there is so many things he doesn't like about her and all but he is still hung up on her there was even a period where we were broken up for  like a week and when we were back together he said that it didn't even count but apparently it did since he told me a couple days later that he has sex with her (the idiot) anyway I have told him on several occasions to stop all contact with her and to just let her go if we are to ever to be able to keep the relationship with me grown but apparently he doesn't want to let her go cause he still talks to her and texts her and all that and I hate it and I have told him about it b4. the girl even has a baby by some other guy and she sleeps around with the same guys over and over, just recently she moved and I think she moved out of state and he says he misses her and is all depressed that she moved and all that shit. I seriously hate it but not sure what to do or say about it. I have told him he needs to get over it and move on. but other than that what should I do or say to him??


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If you think things can't get worse it's probably only because you lack sufficient imagination.

I don't play second fiddle to anyone so I would tell him goodby...good luck.  What is it with people today?   Everyone seems to put up with so much unnecessary BS as if there is no other choice.  If his heart belongs elsewhere, what is there to say?
Posted 2009-07-06T18:29:27Z
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All i have to say is obviously he is not over her and my advice is that you break it off until he is fully over her
Posted 2009-07-14T00:08:43Z
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"LEARNING is fundamental!"

God, Country, Self..in that order.

VISION, Change and Education=PROGRESS

What to do or say about it....1 word

"Goodbye!" - explanation:  You have your own life to be thinking about.  Give him time to figure out his life.  Maybe you both will be happier people after getting more comfortable individually, before getting involved with other people.  I hope this helps.

~ nmpb

 
Posted 2009-07-14T05:24:16Z
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Passion is the source of our finest moments...the joy of love...they clarity of hatered...and the ecstasy of greef...

You should move on with your life and leave this person behind. If you are his girlfriend, the person he loves and wants to be with, you should receive all his attention. Don´t try to hang on to what seems, is not yours and never really has been. You should not repeat over and over again the things that bother you. If he cared, he would have taken corrective actions a long time ago.

That is my opinion. Give yourself more value than what he has given you.

Good luck.
Posted 2009-07-28T10:11:33Z
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You've ordered him to move on which is good. Now, be good to yourself, see a doctor and get a complete checkup with bloodwork. No telling where this tomcat or his girlfriends have been.
Posted 2009-08-01T03:21:26Z
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Like I think you need to get over it and move on.
Posted 2009-08-01T12:12:35Z
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 just get over it and move on. How could you be so kind to such a rubbish?
Posted 2009-08-03T03:21:04Z
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Uh Uh, girl u need 2 break up wit him. Why put yourself through so much unessary stuff. I mean he even slept with the girl, did they even use a condom? If u feel in ur heart that if the girl came back and wanted him, that he would leave u for her than thats ur answer don't give you heart 2 someone who doesn't deseve it!
Posted 2009-08-09T05:38:02Z
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