Boyfriend said I smelled

From what I read it seems like you two are madly in love. The smelly part is very fixable. Summer's eve products works well to help you stay smelling fresh longer. I use it every time I shower. If the problem is still around see a doctor to see if it's an infection. Yest infections usually give off a smell.

I hope this helps you feel less insecure.

He may be using this as an excuse. Some men do not like to give oral sex, only recieve ! My boyfriend of eight years did it for a few weeks and stopped. He only did it in the beginning to make me thank he cared about my pleasure, he did not even do foreplay! he was a self centered lover if you want to call him that ! Lover, i mean. I thank your guy is lying to you!

See a Doctor, explain the problem and see what they say. It is a fixable problem and I have seen this in my lifetime with some women and it can be a turn off. Im sure men can get something like this also. So you didnt know, now you do so fix it and go on. Hey ladies...check yourself...(men too)

If it only happens right before your period, that wouldn't explain his not giving you oral sex at other times in your cycle.  If you wash yourself right before having sexual activity with him, there shouldn't be an issue either.  Try using a medicated douche or a vinegar and water douche, but don't over do it.

If you're really serious about this problem, you need to see your Doctor about it.  There may be a serious infection that needs addressing, or something that you're not doing to keep yourself clean.  I have no idea how old you are, but you need to know how to take care of yourself when it comes to something like that.  I really think that the doctor is the best way to go.  Good luck.  I know that I wouldn't want to partake in giving oral to someone who did have an undesirable odor.  It would be impossible for me to get turned on with having to fight through that problem, not to mention all of the thoughts as to the possibility of contracting something from you from what ever it was that was causing the smell.

I agree with Elden and Able. You need to see a Gynecologist to see if you have a vaginal infection. Bad smell is a big turn off not only in men but also in women. It's nice to be totally clean and smelling good when 2 people have oral sex. Skitch is right. It is a great idea to use a good-smelling douche while taking a shower. Find out what is causing the bad smell. If after you had treated your vaginal infection ( if there is any ), and he does not want to do oral sex, refuse to do oral sex on him too. It should be a give and take.