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Ok so i have a weird situation...My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and we have a baby on the way. When i first met him he was still talking to his ex who also had a boyfriend. When he met me she left her boyfriend to be with him but a week later went back to her ex and thats when he and i got together and have been ever since. So at first she used to call and ask him to come see her and such but he would never go. Then she stopped calling him all together and about a month ago out of no where she called acting like she wanted to tell me congrats on the baby and see how we were. Then about a week later she just popped up at our house while we were outside cleaning our car. Yet again just stopping by to say hi and such. Now about 2 weeks later she called again asking to talk to him and when i said hes working she then asked me to have him call her on her mothers phone. I am friends with a woman who is also friends with her and the woman told me that she has been fighting with her boyfriend and she is now staying back with her mother. I am scared that she is trying to get my boyfriend back and he may take her back. Of course he says hes not interested in her but how do i know that hes not just saying it so that im not worried or suspicious? Afterall, this is a girl that he was in love with and he did go back to her once when i first met him. I just feel so stressed because we worked so hard to get where we are and i dont want to lose him to someone else. I need him to be here for his son


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Well I think that everybody hopes for the best in their relationship and trusts that nothing like this would ever come up. I think that I would give him the benefit of the doubt but if she still keeps coming around and he does go back to her then you and your baby deserve a lot better. We never want things like this to happen and sometimes they don't but sometimes they do. You never know until you're with somebody.

 

you are in a difficult spot my dear all i can say to you is you have no control over him and his feelings and if he loves you like he says he does you have nothing to worry about.I am a man and i know how we think he will probably try to play you both until he gets caught sorry to be the one to tell you that but men are pigs and i am one of them.If it is suppose to be it will be only god knows so pray to him and hope for the best i really do hope things work out for you and your new family may god be with you scottymomma

 
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,
The best advise I can give you is fight back.  That means:
1.  Call her, tell her that you are pregnant and want a loving
     father to your kid, and you expect that she won't do to
     others what she wouldn't like others to do to her. 
     Tell her that you want her to cut all connections to your
     boyfriend.  Please add that you know how to play it nasty
     and want her to back off.  You'll have to be very tough
     and determined. 
2.  Tell your boyfriend that now, as you are expecting a
     baby, you need a loyal loving father to the baby and as a
     pregnant woman you need to feel peaceful and secured.....
     and that means you want him to cut all connections with her.
Best regards,

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If you think things can't get worse it's probably only because you lack sufficient imagination.

I wouldn't deal with the ex at all anymore.  If she calls ask her not to.  Talk to your bf and tell him that you simply aren't going to put up with it.  He has a choice to make and now is the time to make it.  Tell him you have been cool up to this point but either the ex goes or you go.  If you don't set boundaries now, you'll never be able to.  You will have to live with his decision but better to know now than to live wondering how this is going to turn out...

 

thanks everyone for the answers. they have helped me a lot and as of right now she hasnt called or anything. i did call her mother trying to get a hold of her and i was unable to but i told her mother that i would like for her to stop calling and her mother also agreed that she was probably just missing my boyfriend and its not right for her to try to get in between us, afterall she gave him up for someone else a long time ago. he keeps assuring me that he does not want her and even if we were to break up for any reason he wouldnt go back to her. i feel a lot better about the situation and its a lotta thanks to everyone on here. thank you

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