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perry

Boyfriend going away

ive been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now with this guy that not even from my hometown which is buffalo ny.he lived down here for almost 7 months and i enjoyed every moment with this guy until he told me he was leaving going back home this is my first time evr being in a relationship with a dude from out of my hometown its weird because now im hurting and i dont now what to do should i just tell him that i dont wont to be with him because then i wont be see him if we stay together"what should i do?

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Posted 2007-07-21T02:03:58Z
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Dunning

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What is your question?

Long distance relationships come about for all different kind of reasons.

The question is, why do people choose to have them?

Have you chosen to carry on in this relationship because:

You think he will come back? If he is going to come back - do you treasure your relationship enough to wait.

You are planning on going to stay with/live with him? If so, what are you waiting for/do you appreciate your relationship enough until you can/does he want you to go?

Are you doubting continuing this long distance relationship because you don´t know if you will be seeing eachother again. Then find out - talk to him/ask him.

If you plan to continue this longdistance relationship with such distance between you both then the question is different: What do I want out of a relationship and can a longdistance relationship (this is not to do with youself and him) give me what I want?

Posted 2007-07-23T19:22:55Z

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Live & let live.

Follow your heart

Posted 2007-07-27T02:54:57Z

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hemplover

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It's not the mountain we conquer... but ourselves

I think that long distance relationships can work if both people want them to work and if both people care enough to put the effort in. That means phone calls, visits, emails, etc. It also depends how long term this is. If it's just a few months and then you plan to live closer to one another, than I think that if you want it, this is something that you can get past and live through. If neither one of you has any plans to move to the other's town so that you can be together, than I think that there's a bigger problem there that exists. In that case, it would seem to me that neither of you are dedicated enough to the relationship. I think you guys need to talk and make these decisions together.

Posted 2007-08-20T13:33:41Z

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