I am so confused as to what to do. My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years and now have a 2 months old baby. He was not accepted at the beginning of the relationship due to the fact that he was black and i had an arranged marriage and one day I ran off. Me running off actually made the situation worse so of course they hated him. I actually stayed away from my family for a matter of months until one day, he called a family member of mines and spoke to them about me not going around my family. I actually did not know that he called my cousin until my cousin called me and told me he was a cool guy. Ever since then they started hanging out.. almost EVERYDAY!!! A year went buy and all of a sudden hell broke loose!! My boyfriend and I bought a car from my cousin and was making payments to their bank, but she wanted the car back and called the police, which of course brought drama. My boyfriend hates her boyfriend and therefore told my family that he will not come around as long as my cousin's boyfriend is around. They did not like that which caused tension between them. My boyfriend made 2 attempts to make the situation better, but yet they treated him as if he wasn't there. Now, TODAY, they are trying to call truce and be family once again, but he is refusing. He said that there is no problem but he will not see them as his family anymore, which hurts me. It is easy for him to forgive others that he had problems with or once faught but it's so hard to forgive my family. Is there anyone out there that can give me advice?
