Big romantic gestures

 Moved to Italy and got married, it lasted for a 3 months. Then I married her again a year later, that lasted another 6 months. So, a year later I married her twin sister and we have been married for 27 years now.

I was maried for 12 yrs, it ended 25 yrs ago just before xmas 1983. She was driving a knew car we had just gotten for her, she was a nurse & she had picked up our 2 young daughters & went back to the hosp. for some paperwork & left. It had snowed & she lost control of the car and all were lost. When I met her, she was like a pitbull, she wasn;t letting me get away., and I truly LOVED her & our girls. On our wedding date each year she always rec'd a dozen roses & jewelry, dinner and me!!! At xmas time , I would buy things thru-out the yr that I thought she would like, she always had 100-150 gifts under the tree. I stained &finished both girls bedrooms, tons of stuffed animals, and hanging princesses, cow over the moon & others from the ceiling. I had the wonderful life while it lasted.

My husband had been given 1 to 3 years to live, a year had already passed and he wanted to go on a cruise with his sister and her husband, I knew from previous experience rhat I would suffer from seasickness in spite of taking meds or injections,  for love of my husband I went and although it was not a great time for me, he enjoyed it immensely. I am glad I did go.

faked a mental state of suicide. LOL

put myself in danger for tha girl with other guys trying to take my life,physically,mentally,emotionally and it has all taken its toll..even to my health... i  tolerate her mind games, one day she loves me the other she is unsure,so i have to wait thru it all..adding  more stresss to my life...and now she even  wants  me to take a break for   54 or 5 months and get with me after...does anyone get it?  ive done so  much  for her,but not so much financially,  my problem that she gives me is that i  point out the things that get to  me,only because i need a clear mind, i need to know and understand why she does certain things,...so we  fight  alot  if not  everyday,but i love her,it is true love,thats why  i   point the things that get to me out,if i didnt  care than i would not point the stuff out,for  her to  give me an explanation.. someone,anyone,can u Give me some advice .an opinion.

After I graduatedf from college, I moved to a large city and got a job to be near a "secret crush"  I had in college.  I never did get to meet him but I had a great time in the city.

Craziest thing I did for love? got married

His brain must have been between his legs. But he sure makes that "better" family look just that way. Why the hell didn't they just skip town, head to Brooklyn and live happily ever after? Lots do.