I am desperate to help my family. My "husband" is troubled. He behaves in such odd ways that it is impossible to work with him in any way. He freaks out if someone scratches the wall, but is allowing out house to fall apart around us. He ignores good behavior and seems just fine with bad behavior (missing curfew, smoking pot, skipping school). He'll just stand there and let people completely insult me (which they have figured out is a good way to get rewards from him), and then be so upset that I won't say "hello" or eat something he has cooked. Nothing seems normal with him, in fact it has always seemed like his brain in wired backwards. It is getting worse with time and the kids are figuring out how to use his bizaar behavior to their benefit. Is there a disorder that makes someone work this way. He has gone completely wacko and I am afraid of what is going to happen to all of us.