GIVE a man a fish and you feed him for a day. TEACH a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.
SADLY, most fishermen are afraid to touch the worm.
Slow down. Speak English. Use full sentences. Use Punctuation.
As it stands we have ZERO clue what you're trying to ask.
A babysitter is a free agent. An independent business. The BABYSITTER decides who they wish to work for, you don't have any say in that. If someone else is employing (not "using") that person and you want them, you need to offer better pay and benefits.
