id start off by talking to the easier parent and telling them that you really like a guy if there fine with that  then a few days later  tell  him or her that you guys are dating discrib how you feel bout this guy  and discrib him to your parents  reassure them that he isnt bad hes a good guy or you caN bring him over and introduce him as a friend see if they like him and if they do wait   a few days and tell them you guys are dating