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David DeAngelo

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To attract a high-quality woman, a man needs to build a high quality life for himself.

Sometimes this is hard for a lonely guy to understand. As a man, it’s almost natural to feel as though a great woman will be the answer to all of your problems.

But here’s the ironic part…

Although this might SEEM true, the fact is that the FEELING of needing a woman to solve all of your problems CREATES problems with every woman you meet.

It’s called NEEDINESS… which… you guessed it… also translates into WUSSINESS.

And there is only ONE cure…

You need to build a life for yourself that gives you INTERNAL satisfaction… and you don’t need a woman to do it!

But like they say in the movies… “If you build it… she will come”.

So how do you do this?

Well first of all, you need to start doing things for YOURSELF.

Develop a social circle that gives you a ton of activities to participate in that you enjoy.

Polish relations with your family… do whatever it takes. You’ll feel much better, and more content.

If you have some hobbies that you’ve wanted to take up… DO IT. Develop interests outside of picking up women that are exciting for you.

Do some of those things that you’ve been putting off for a long time… if you’ve always wanted to skydive or climb a mountain, make it happen… so you can look back at yourself a year from now and be proud and excited about what you’ve accomplished.

Don’t get too obsessed with learning how to meet women.

But DO get obsessed with having a great life.

THAT is the key.

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Willing to meet intellectuals

Imagine an invisible, undetectable force that's powerful

enough to override your sense of reason yet draws you
to someone with an almost animal passion. These aren't
Cupid's mythological arrows, but real shots of human
pheromones.

http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/aphrodisiacs/phermones.html

Welcome to The Scent of Eros:
Mysteries of Odor in Human Sexuality -

'Scientists in Philadelphia have established for the first
time that the human body produces pheromones, special
aromatic chemical compounds discharged by one individual
that affect the sexual physiology of another'....

http://www.athenainstitute.com/discovery.html

Do pheromones work in human sexual attraction?

They may be odorless and colorless and their function may be
mysterious, but human pheromones at last have the zest of
scientific truth. Researchers at the University of Chicago
have demonstrated that compounds swabbed from the
'underarms' of young women at different times of the month
can alter the length of other women's menstrual cycles,
compressing or expanding the cycles in predictable
fashion....

http://www.ishipress.com/humanodo.htm

http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/9803/11/pheromones/index.html

What is the force that lights the fuse between two
complete strangers? What current pulses through their veins,
engorges their hearts, occupies their minds and numbs their
texting fingers? Ah, if only

I knew. As magic formulas go, sexual chemistry must surely
be the most valuable. It's intoxicating effects are more
pleasurable and more powerful than any drug and when it hits,
it hits hard. There are the rushes of ecstacy, the gut wrenching
anticipation, fluttering, dizziness, and the diminished
concentration that turns day-dreaming into a full-time job.
And then there are the side effects. A positively Colombian
annihilation of appetite and its confidence- boosting by-product,
weight loss. And it is free. And it is legal. It is bloody amazing.

But no one knows what "it" is. Scientists have managed to
map our genetic blueprint. They understand the subtleties
of hormones and the complexities of the emotional brain.
But the thing that makes two people click remains a mystery.
Theories abound as to what, or why. Those looking for a
magic bullet (or Cupid's arrow) tend to favour the notion
of pheromones - scents secreted by the sweat glands in the
'armpits' and pubic hair. And the relatively recent discovery
of the vomeronasal organ, a small chemo-sensory structure in
the human nose, lends the concept some weight.

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4159/is_20030629/ai_n12741733

Science of Love - Cupid's Chemistry:

There are, in fact, three distinct stages of love; each with
their own characteristic emotional profile and scientific explanation.

First is lust. Lust is driven by our sex hormones testosterone
and oestrogen. These hormones are what get us 'out on the pull'.
After lust comes attraction. This is the love-struck phase;
the time when we lose our appetite, can't sleep, and can't
concentrate. This is what we know as falling in love.

http://www.thenakedscientists.com/HTML/articles/article/clairemcloughlincolumn1.htm/

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