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Anxiety gone wild - Now what!!!

I have beehotmail.comn living with a severe anxiety disorder since I was about 14 years old. I had run away from an extremely violent home, and when I was followed by my 9 year old brother I rented a house with money that I'd saved, and continued paying the $80.00/month rent with my many odd jobs around town that I had, over and above getting my high school. I learned to run and never stop. I learned to set high goals and achieve them. I finished high school with a 96% average (because failure didn't exist in my vocabulary).  To fail was to be held back, to be held back was to die slow.  I then worked for a year, saved, and put myself through college. After 10 years (1980 to 1990) in my profession I bought a beautiful house in a nice neighborhood, put down a large downpayment and paid it off in 5 years. In 1981 a psychologist prescribed me valium to ease chronic anxiety. He said that because of the life I'd led and the coping mechanisms I'd developed that I'd be "driving with the breaks on" all of my life.  Valium really helped. I've been very active and successful in my life and in my professional career.  My family doctor quit in July of last year.(2008)  All the new doctors I've seen since won't give me valium. They say I must be addicted to it since I've been on it so long.  I then tried to go it alone, but all the same symptoms that I suffered before I started on the drug came back. I never took too many of these pills because I knew they were addictive and I know better than to ever totally rely on anything or anyone. To be an addict goes against everything that I know to be true.  I haven't been able to leave my house since last August.  My heart beats like it's going to burst right out of my chest, I shake, I have nervous facial twitches (ticks), I can't concentrate on anything.  I feel like I'm in a plane that's crashing and the pilot is gone.  Has anybody out there ever had (or is having) a paralyzing life event like this, caused by severe generalized anxiety and couldn't get any professional help because you've been pigeon-holed into a stereotype?  If there's no help for me out there, maybe there's some help here. Thanks. by Angie


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If you gave had a history done by a psychiatrist and it is determined that you have a "certifiable anxiety disorder" - there should be no problem getting your anxiety disorder under control.  Anxiety disorders are a disease - just like anything else and it's certainly time for everyone to "come out of the closet" of anxiety and not be embarrassed to admit you have a disease.  It's no different than diabetes or any other disease - it must be treated appropriately.  If I had a doctor who said I was "addicted" to a specific anxiety medication and didn't go further by sending me to see a psychiatrist in order to test me to see the extent and reason for my anxiety disorder - then I'd leave that doctor.  Therapy (not by the psychiatrist) but by a good therapist is often quite helpful too.  Talking things through is like having a good bowel movement.  So there!  To anyone who doesn't believe that anxiety disorders are "real" and scary and can put your life on "hold" - I say pooey to you.  And bless you for not having to ever worry about anything.  Be grateful it's not you living in "hell on earth."

Posted 2009-09-16T11:55:17Z
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i truely think and agree with your doctors that you are addicted to this drug you've been on,some of the actions you are exhibiting as a result of not taking this drug sounds like you have withdrawal symptoms.i think the best thing you can do now though it might sound extreme, is to check into a facility that will take care of you and medically daiognise your problem for the best and approriate treatment cause lets face it,you are too young to live  on prescription drug 

Posted 2009-03-03T17:53:56Z
 
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Dear Babs:  Thank you so much for taking the time to send an answer to my question.  I've been off of this drug now for 8 months.  What I am experiencing now are classic and documented symptoms of severe anxiety disorder.  Any withdrawl symptoms would have displayed themselves within the first week of being drug free (that would have been last July).  But I do appreciate any and all answers.  Thank you.

Posted 2009-03-03T18:11:30Z
 
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Valium does have long lasting side effects. Withdrawal takes time. As it's been as you say 8 months most of the side effects are probably gone. However, there may still be some lingering. Please talk to you doctor about taking another drug for your symptoms. While valium may seem like the answer to your prayers it is not considered to be a drug that should be taken long term. Most insurance companies won't cover it anymore either because of it's addictive properties and the expense for them. Also, it became a readily available street drug. Xanax also a benzodiazapine (generic alprazolam) for anxiety may be more beneficial for you at this time.

Posted 2009-03-03T20:17:51Z
 
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Unfortunately, with the DEA breathing down their necks, more doctors are becoming increasingly cautious about the meds they prescribe--particularly painkillers and benzos.  Valium/diazepam is seen by many doctors as a drug they would prefer to stay away from as it is highly addictive.  As someone who has dealt with generalized anxiety disorder on and off for years, I would consult with a good psychiatrist who may suggest a regime of an anti-depressant like Zoloft (which also works on anxiety) supplemented with one of the more commonly used anti-anxiety meds today--xanax/alprazolam (fast acting but wears off quickly) or clonazepam/klonopin (stays in system longer so you need less).  As long as you take your prescriptions according to the prescribed schedule, your doctor should not have a problem with providing them.  In my case, I found seeing a therapist and talking through what triggers the anxiety and coming up with new coping skills really helped--more than I ever thought it would.  As I hate being in the position of asking for meds of any kind, I want to conquer my anxiety and talk therapy has helped immeasurably.  Good luck to you!

Posted 2009-04-10T21:42:51Z
 
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Have you thought of medical detox for valium? Anxiety disorder treatment centers across the US offer multiple options help you come out your problem. It may also be a case of dual diagnosis where the valium addiction is just having its minor effects whereas anxiety as the main issue is causing major problems. It is very important for you to take a second medical opinion and opt for a treatment program that is effective in the long-run. All the best!

Posted 2009-04-24T05:51:33Z
 
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I recently went to a new doctor and noticed he was located in something called the Professional Building. I felt better right away.

I would recommend that you check into EMDR or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. A member of my family used this with great success to overcome her fear of driving. Like all types of psychotherapy, it is not for everyone, and you need to make sure that if you decide to use EMDR, it is done by a certified therapist.

Posted 2009-06-27T07:03:55Z
 
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So, Angie;  Still out there looking for answers?  Just came across your question after geting onto this Yedda.  I believe I can help.

Posted 2009-08-05T17:42:18Z
 

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Hmm I guess if you don't want to take some medicine and do it the right way I would also suggest on doing some EFT training for a different change.

Posted 2009-10-15T02:29:46Z
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