Anal...straight men?

most men like when female play with there ass hole hover they are schard to ask for it i dont know about the finger but to get your ass eat could be a very good feeling m met this female that did it the first time we hade sex and i think ove her every day becouse of the feeling that she left on me

talk to him fine out what he is realy into it take two to make it hapen

I don't think it matters if a man would give him more pleasure if he is not attracted to men then he is not gay. What does matter is that you don't like doing this and it seems to be something he can't live without. That means you two are not sexually compatible, and as much as you love him, you are probably not right for eachother, and there is a greater chance that he might be attracted to men, than if he were not into being analy stimulated.

Liking anal stimulation does not make a man gay. Liking stimulation of any kind FROM a man does. A lot of straight guys want to have their anuses licked or penetrated BY A WOMAN. And lots of women enjoy doing it. The anus is filled with sensual nerve endings, and the male prostate gland is stimulated by penetration. You can feel the prostate a couple inches inside the anus on the side toward his front. That gland produces part of the semen that you love to see spurt when he's having an orgasm. All right, then, anal stimulation feels awesome and can produce really REALLY strong orgasms. If you're really into this guy, really attracted and like his body and love to make him feel good, just relax and get into it. Get over the stereotypes about male/female, straight/gay and love his ass. You might end up wanting to get a strap-on dildo to really give it to him.

If you find it a little "gross" ask him to give himself two or three enemas beforehand. Not deep or with a lot of water. Just enough to empty out the rectum and anal sphincter and rinse it out so it's clean. Disposable enemas are available at every drugstore. His bottom otherwise should be totally clean and fresh. And always use lots of lubrication when penetrating the anus, preferably KY-Jelly, as it is nice and thick and it lasts. You can never have too much lube.

Below are links to some articles to enlighten you. Enjoy turning the tables on your man and making him the receptive one.

--WD

http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/249_love_tip.html

http://www.xandria.com/learn/sex-talk/anal-play-for-heterosexual-men.html

http://sexuality.about.com/od/analplay/ht/htprostate.htm

http://www.sexherald.com/sexual-taboo/men_who_like_receiving_it_&_women_who_like_giving_it-_more_than_mere_fetish.html

http://nymag.com/nightlife/mating/25988/

http://www.goodvibes.com/Content.aspx?id=1159&leftMenu=35&lr=y

http://www.loversguide.com/sex_articles.0.html?&cHash=e27504cf&tx_ttnews%5Btt_news%5D=451&tx_ttnews%5BbackPid%5D=52

For more, do a Google search of terms like prostate massage, straight male anal penetration, anal play, and so on.

P.S.

As a happily married person, I have to tell you--sexual compatibility is REALLY important. If you don't have it, chances are the marriage won't work. So be sure. I could never be happy with a woman who did not enjoy oral sex both ways, or who did not like to lick and penetrate my anus. Now, at first, my wife (when she was my girlfriend) was weirded out. Then again, she was weirded out by my penis, as she was a virgin. But she didn't know straight men liked receiving anal pleasure, and she had all the stereotypes going. But after awhile, she found she really liked licking and fingering me. She goes wild, almost like I do when I give her oral sex and finger her. She bends me over a table, or gets me on all fours in bed, and she kisses and bites my bottom and licks my balls from behind and then ... WOW ... my anus. She laughs and makes happy noises and I just lose myself in pleasure. It's great to be on the receiving end for a change. She makes a production of opening up the tube of lubricant and working her finger in. I HAVE TO HAVE THIS. I can't live without it. It fulfills me and satisfies something that nothing else can do. I love oral sex and intercourse but I need this too. 

I suspect your fiance is the same way. So if you love him, love his ass. Marry him if you're sure he's going to be faithful to you, if he adores you and you feel the same, and you're really into each others' bodies and souls.  Good luck.

--WD

kinda weird that he actually asks you, but it just means he's comfortable w/ you. both men and women have stimulation sensors in their anus, but usually guys dont ask, girls do. i wouldnt be worried about him being gay, he's just forward and comfortable with you.

Hi Confused,

    This seems like you and your boyfriend are not compatible sexually.  If that act grosses you out, by all means, don't force yourself into doing something that you don't like to do.

    You are going to be expected to do this evertime you'll have sex with him.  Why be miserable?

     If I were you,  I would not go through this marriage.  Let him find someone who will not be grossed out with this sexual practice.

    He also should respect you and not beg you to do this.  Find someone who will not make you do things that are not sexually acceptable with you.

While anal play can be fun for a guy, it can be gross for the girl if she is the one doing it (some women don't mind at all).  Get an anal plug or vibrator.  Probably more important is to talk to the dude.  Find out whats going through his mind.

I had no idea!!! I never knew men liked this... My husband has never asked me to play there. Im his 2nd sexual partner. We have been together 12 years. Now im wondering if its just that he has never had it ... Wow...I say, If you love him, get over it! Have a few drinks and bend that man over!