Agressive sex

Jess, start small (none of this punching in the face stuff to begin, he might just think your mad at him...lol). When you two start messing around maybe take out some hand ties and start tying him to the bedpost. See how he reacts, from my experience most guys are thrilled when women want to get a little kinky. If he likes it then start teasing him. Maybe run your nails lightly down his chest (if he responds well then next time do it a little harder). Sometimes if you want a guy to be rougher with you, you need to say it...like "I have this fantasy of you f***ing me bent over the desk". If you want him to do it harder, tell him! This can be such a huge turn on, first that you are so into it that you want it harder and more of it AND that you know what you want! It always helps to dress the part, get yourself a set of leather bra and panties and stiletto heels. Use the outfit to guide you a bit. If you get into it, your man will definitely follow.

I would start with some biting and spanking.  By "aggressive", do you mean rough with passion, or do you want to try actual pain?  I don't think of bondage as aggression.  I think of hair pulling, light to medium slapping and the others mentioned above.  Tell him you want him to slam you against a tree and f**k you until you scream.  The more excited you get, the more aggressive you can become.  If you want to just do more unusual things, then there is bondage, pain, dominance and submission . . . etc..

ok this stuff is my fav.  Grabbing the body firmly. Nibbling works but good restraints can be found at any sex store. What is really nice is a bed sheet you can purchase and you had vel-cro wrist straps(they come unhooked for position change) attached to velcro squares. its made so you have to be released, you cant get yourself out alone. spanking is a plus but to get more aggressive, rest your hand on the neck never choke all the way!

2 tell u the truth da whips n da chains n stuff sound a lil scary but wut i do wit my girl is we start a fight but we kno itz not a bad fight yell at him a lil bit but do sumthin while ur yellin to let him kno wat ur tryna do if its sumthin me n my girl kno iz how to yell at each other n make it gud u shud try angry sex

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