Hello jkgrandma. I truly respect your opinion and Yes you're right, My point was some could get away with shit and others cant and this doesnt mean to any race its just what it is, Les. and Hoemoes can ask question and make statements but a  heterosexual cant express his or herself and was the point I wanted to make ever since I joined Yedda after reading garbage thats not helping no one deal with life on life terms. and before a Yedda staff reply to my posting 1 or 2 things I feel should have taken place #1. what other garbage needs to be clean up. and #2 her point should have been a little more clear perharps the way up put it, then again that would be putting words in one mouth. In all fairness I really wanted to make a point and be creative on a adult web site. Once again your point was well taken, Thanks.