socialbutterfly, I get the feeling this person may have had an abortion or knows someone who is or is contemplating it. Nowhere is it written about a debate or question about anyone's opinion. cpadilla, I don't know how to answer your question properly so I am going to leave it at this. Think long and hard. Do your research...however, on this particular subject, through doctors, clergy, psychologist/therapists. I am sure they have counselors right at where they would perform such a procedure.