i've been with my wife 26 years. we've been having problems for about 7-8 years. but within the last couple months things have hit rock bottom. i lost my job due to a disability and waiting for s.s. and she works part time. our house is in foreclousure. my wife in the last 3-4 months got emotionally close to our son's 20 year old best freind. my wife is 48 years old. the 20 year old feels creeped out about because its his best friends 48 year old mom. my wife keeps texting him and visiits him in his supermarket job. someone tell me if this is all right or not. i personally feel its sick and regardless of the age its very hurtfull to me. she denies any physical activity but i sense that there as been. someone please give me some input.
Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.
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Are you and your wife in marriage counseling? If you're not, I really think you both could benefit from professional counseling. If cost is an issue, some therapists will work on a sliding scale or perhaps group therapy would be an option.
Are you sure it's sexual attraction? She could just think of him as a son. I've gotten close to my kid's friends but I tend to think of them all as my babies. I do think visiting him at work and texting him all the time is a little strange. My question to you is why do you feel threatened by a 20 yr old kid? Your wife's a little crazy, but it's probably just a phase. Tell her to pull her head out of her butt or she'll be looking for another place to live.
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