What are 3 of the most important qualities that you look for in a partner?

For me, it will be:

1.o HONEST - No matter if the truth hurts, it must be known.

2.0 OPEN MINDED - she must be matured enough 

3.0 SMART - ready to talk to stangers anytime, and can carry a conversation 

HONESTY: more than just the generic term. -Are they different with people they know than with the ones they don't? do their actions match their words?

 TRUST: do friends talk behind their back about what they say and do that are opposite?

 SELFLES: do they think of others needs more than their own sometimes, most of the time?

three things I look for is

1. Are you listening to me? can you understand me/ my language/ my body language, my hints... responsiveness 

2.  Do you act and say the same things?  Lack of patronizing, placating, appeasing behavior- I am repulsed by that; I am looking for ...wholeness in thought and action...integrity

3. How does he treat others and how does he treat himself? Does he love life? the planet? his ownself? his health? weaker peple? children? pets? I don't tolerate brutality.  I am looking for ...kindness and dignity

then there is a strong back, good knees, nice teeth (and smile) and the ability and willingness to pull me out of a burning building if need be.