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Why doesn’t my BFF girl talk with me?

Every time when I want to talk about romance (kissing, sex ECT) or sexuality my BFF just doesn’t respond to it. She’ll just listen to me talk about it I feel like I am talking to a wall…we are freaking 22 years old I knew her since high school and she always been like this. I just want to have some girl talk here and there…..it just pisses me off. I am a lesbian, my best friend is fine with my sexuality it doesn’t bother her. But it makes me wonder sometimes…

I even told her that our guy friend kissed me in high school out of curiosity and she had no reaction toward it but my other friend did she was like “ewww way” but Shelly the BFF had no respond (WHY?).

FYI : we both are friends with the guy but she doesn’t like him in a romantic way neither do I, so I know she wasn’t jealous that he kissed.

I just want to know why doesn’t she girl talk to me why doesn’t she open up and be a grown up and talk about love and sex I mean I know some people don’t talk about it but at least love or something the only thing we talk about it school work and traveling or whatever.

 


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I guess you should ask her if this bothering you so much. You shouldn't leave this all alone. She is the only person that might answer you this question 'why'.
Posted 2009-09-10T09:07:32Z
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Lolo,

   You should take your friend as she is.  She does not feel comfortable talking about this topic.  If this is a deal-breaker, find someone else who is like you.
Posted 2009-09-10T09:14:26Z
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Lolo it sounds like a general relationship as in she cant get enough of you but she has different interests. school and work are hard to talk about for some people but for others its is the easiest and 1 constant thing to talk about it may be repetative but it truely always changes almost like living day to day and not for the future. I can tell you truely deeply care about her but she seems not the emotional type Oppositers do attract and just because she does not like someone does not mean you have to not like that person as well
Posted 2009-09-10T11:13:36Z
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Then Maybe you should not talk about it
Posted 2009-09-13T16:10:24Z
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Not eveyone likes to hear about other people discussing their sex life. I would strongly suggest that you just shut up about it. It is nobody's business than your own. You will find you will get more respect from your friend if you take this advice.
Posted 2009-09-24T16:00:09Z
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