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When a woman “flakes out”

What should a guy do when a woman “flakes out” on him?


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I want to answer your question FIRST with another question:



WHO'S PROBLEM IS IT THAT SHE BLEW YOU OFF AND FLAKED?

Hm.

It all depends on your perspective.

When a woman flakes out on me, I see it as a HUGE mistake that SHE made.

So if/when I see her again, I shake my head in disappointment and say "Well you sure missed out on a good time".

And then regardless of what she says (unless her mom died or she lost a leg in a car accident) I just give her the "You're a flaky woman with no integrity" disappointed look and walk away.

Again I ask you: WHO'S PROBLEM IS IT?

Do you really want to go out with a woman who is flaky?

Don't let it bother you. Just move on. Many women are flakes.
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natasha0985
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Surprisingly I agree some what with him.(except that whole many women are flakes thing..lol) Don't let it get to you. It is her loss not yours...move on....there will be others..lol..good luck!
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How long have you been with this lady?Is there more to it?....if you need advice on this matter ,just click the link I've provided below and I will help you with some of YOUR issues in dating and relationships.

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itoldyouso
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hi! what does it mean to 'flake out' on someone? just curious..
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tul2007tul
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Love your life.

When a woman flakes, move on. Most often than not, she's not interested and is not mature enough to just tell you she's not interested.
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T Ryan, I agree. If she flakes out you will get to know that she is not interested. You do not have to take her out for dinner or wake up and wonder where the peppermint on the pillow went.

Speaking of flaky: When I was a teen in the 1970's a gentleman asked a young lady out. He splurged for a limo, expensive dinner reservation, a tux and flowers. When she cancelled at the last minute he actually sued her in a court in  San Fransisco AND WON!

I would have given anything if he had asked me out by the way. 
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