oh wow that was a shock im not sure i expected that type of response from DB. I don't know anyone here personally but I watch for the "regulars" answers. This question is a year old now and i'm sure decisions have long been made. ok but 17 yes its young but no need in giving up a child and living life with the grief. Children will change this young girl into a woman a little early than had not the child come along, but you live with the choices you make. I agree with finishing school I know many girls who had babies in high school that continued on and graduated. Its not as easy but very well possible. I'm sure this girls life has changed dramatically but no matter this child is a blessing.