its been 15 years and my wifes labido is extremely low She refuses to talk about our sex life . My labido on the other hand is high. I can no longer nag, plead or beg for sex. What should I do?
I think that you need to try once more to talk to your wife. Let her know that you really miss the love that you used to share and that you feel like you two need to do something about it. It might be physical with her, that she needs to get checked out, and maybe both of you need to see a sex therapist together. Tell her that it's not her fault or anything... this is something that you want to figure and make better together. Make sure she knows that you are not upset with you. You just want both of you to want sex and to have fun together. See what she agrees to. Good luck.
Love your life as you only get one.
Have you tried couples counseling? Sometimes it's not necessarily a woman's labido that is low that causes her to be disinterested in intimate relations. Maybe some professional talk therapy will open her up to better communication so that if her labido is low, you can learn other ways to enjoy each other's company.
If you can communicate with her, but I get the feeling that she has closed this door of togetherness. I would see about her having a complete Hormonal-Check-Up to see if a Hormonal Imbalance is the cause of her lack of labido.
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